On this page, I’m keeping a record of my values and how they apply to my life. I’ll update the page as I learn more and my ideas change. Hopefully, it will be a record of my outlook on life and how that might alter over time.

The values below come with a mixture of general and specific hints for myself about how to embrace each one.

Be Happy and Positive

• Wake up with a smile and optimism for the day ahead
• Find the positive, or walk away
• Don’t complain – fix things
• Appreciate one person per week
• See friends at least once a week
• Read to Vani and Anvi

Be Honest

• Share by default
• Set public goals and values
• Review progress in public
• Try to answer honestly every time (not always possible)

Improve Myself

• Always look to make small tweaks
• Stay focused on long-term improvements
• Do things that seem scary or uncomfortable
• Evolve with life – don’t fight against it

Be Humble

• Don’t work for credit
• Credit others
• Separate ego and action
• Picture the best version of myself and admit I am not there yet

Get Better Relationships

• Make time for family
• Make time for friends
• Pursue the relationships that matter
• End those that harm me

Relax & Enjoy Life

• Seek out things that relax my mind and body
• Meditate
• Focus on enjoyment
• Make time for unstructured time

Be Efficient

• Make sure every task is important
• Find new (or old) ways to approach tasks
• Technology can help, but sometimes gets in the way
• Simplify everything

Be Gracious

• Remember what I’m thankful for
• Don’t let a chance to thank pass by
• Let everyone share the win
• Don’t take away from anyone’s moment

Be Good

• Do the right thing
• Be clear about my motivation
• Be good, even when no-one will notice
• Choose long-term good where possible

Be a Role Model

• Be aware my children learn from me
• Behave in a way that reflects my goals
• Actions are better than words
• Explain tough decisions